Sometimes, married couples choose to pursue a legal separation instead of a divorce, only to later realize that divorce is the better option for them. At Miranda, Magden & Miranda, LLP, we understand that these are significant decisions that require skilled guidance. In this blog, we explore important considerations for couples seeking a divorce during or after a legal separation.
First, it’s important to understand that living separately is not the same as a legal separation, which must be established through a court proceeding.
In California, the legal procedures for obtaining legal separation are quite similar to divorce. Both processes involve dividing assets, determining custody arrangements, and establishing support obligations.
Couples can amend a legal separation proceeding into a divorce proceeding if the legal separation has not yet been finalized. The spouse seeking the amendment must serve the other spouse with the amended petition. The waiting period for finalizing the proceeding will be reset, meaning the divorce cannot be finalized until at least six months after a final decree is issued.
The decision to finalize a divorce goes beyond legal and financial considerations; it encompasses personal and emotional dimensions. For some, finalizing the divorce symbolizes the end of a painful chapter, allowing them to heal and grow. For others, the emotional weight of such a definitive step can be overwhelming. It is essential to reflect on your readiness for this transition and seek support from trusted friends, family, or a mental health professional.
For couples considering reconciliation, maintaining a legal separation may be beneficial. It allows time for reflection and healing without the permanence of divorce.
Prolonged separations can lead to ambiguity and complications, particularly in financial and custodial matters. In such cases, finalizing the divorce might provide the necessary clarity and resolution.
It’s also important to note that if a legal separation has been in place for an extended period of time, the court is likely to consider this “status quo” when determining the final divorce decree. Therefore, couples negotiating a legal separation should carefully consider whether the terms they agree to would be acceptable in a divorce proceeding, as they may be more difficult to alter after a prolonged legal separation.
When deep, irreconcilable differences exist, and reconciliation is not an option, finalizing the divorce may be the best course of action to move forward with your life.
At Miranda, Magden & Miranda, LLP, we are committed to guiding you through these challenging times with compassion. If you need assistance with your legal separation or divorce, please contact us to schedule a consultation. We are here to help you navigate the legal system and move toward a brighter future.
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